The Kneeling Submissive

If you’re already in the submissive role, or you yearn to be, you want to find out how to be a good submissive. You want to know what it means and how you can take on the role of a sub. Even though it can seem as simple as just saying ‘yes’ to whatever a Mistress or Master might ask you to do, the process of learning how to be a sub is more complicated.

You will begin the journey of learning how to be a good submissive by getting a Dominant that is willing to train you. Since you cannot train yourself, you will need to work with someone who is going to meet your needs and allow you to make a few mistakes now and again. Find someone who has already training other submissives in how to be a sub, since this will nearly guarantee that you are getting solid training.

At the same time, you can also begin to change your mindset when you are in the submissive role. Take out a journal and entitle it, “How Can I Serve a Dominant?” Each day, write one page that answers the main question that is on this journal. A s you do, you will find that you are learning how to be a sub, as well as how to stay in the right head space to serve.

Over time, you will find that different Dominants want different things from their submissives, so the process of learning how to be a good submissive actually continues long after you’ve been trained.

Take notes after your training sessions when you’re finding out how to be a sub, since this can help you spot ways that you can improve, even if your Dominant hasn’t given you any corrections.