Wednesday 25 April 2012

Becoming A Dominatrix

Even if you don’t want to be a professional dominatrix, you might want to pick up a few of their skills.  They can control men without having to say a word and that can be a hot addition to your current sex life.  With just a few basic tips and some dominatrix training, you can learn how to be a dominatrix, someone who is able to control another and make them see just how much they need someone to look after them.

Begin dominatrix training – By reading some books and watching BDSM videos, you can learn more about what a dominatrix might look like, and then you can figure out how you want to take on this role.
Find out the limits of the partner – Before you can be a dominatrix, you need to know what limits your partner has so you don’t push them past these boundaries.
Punish bad behavior – Make sure it’s clear that there are punishments for bad behavior.
Reward good behavior – At the same time, you will want to reward good behavior so you’re encouraging your slave to act in a certain way.
Create a dungeon space – Have the bedroom or dungeon space ready to go, with a slight bit of intimidation that is fitting of a dominatrix.  Have the tools of your trade laid out and ready for your slave.

You can become a dominatrix in your own bedroom, without having to do extensive dominatrix training.  Much of the training you need comes from the hands-on experience you get with playing with your partner.  If you can communicate well together, then you will find out what works and what doesn’t to create an ideal BDSM scene.

And don’t forget to dress the part of the dominatrix.  You want to make sure that you look like someone to fear when you walk into the room or the dungeon, that’s often the most important piece in how to be a dominatrix.


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