No
matter what level of training you have as a sub, it can help to think
about how to be a good submissive. When you are training with a Dom
or Domme, you will need to know what is expected of you and how you
can fulfill your role in the most productive way possible.
Some
tips for how to be a sub include:
- Listening to your Dom or Domme – When you’re in the middle of a scene and you’re not listening to what a Dom or Domme is saying, you will miss out on the opportunity that the training has to offer. You need to listen to every word so that you can learn the lessons being taught.
- Speaking up when limits are crossed – If you have a contract with your Dom or Domme and your limits are crossed, you need to be comfortable enough to speak up. This will help to establish trust and comfort in your BDSM relationship.
- Trusting yourself to do what needs to be done – While there may be times as a sub where you don’t believe you can do what is asked of you, realize that your Dom or Domme would not ask you to do something that they didn’t think you were capable of doing.
- Being eager and ready to please your Dominant – Every training session is a chance to learn how to be a good submissive by listening and doing things that please your Dominant.
If
you’re just learning how to be a sub, you can begin with the basics
of establishing trust and listening closely to what is asked of you.
In time, you will develop the right mindset and become the best slave
possible for your Dom or Domme.
