Becoming
a Domme is a journey. Not only do you need to decide what sort of
Domme you want to be, but you also need to learn how to be a good
Domme. This process may take months or years and it can be likened
to any journey of self-discovery. When you realize you want to step
into the role of a Domme, you should be careful in the way you change
your behaviors and your mindset.
- Think about what becoming a Domme means to you – Though this might sound a little strange, it’s a good idea to think about why you want to learn how to be a good Domme first. This will help you begin to see what sort of Domme you may want to become in the process.
- Make a list of goals for training – Since becoming a Domme is a process, you will want to make a list of all of your goals, even the small ones. You might end up changing this list as you learn more, but starting off with some sort of map of your journey can help you stay on track.
- Work with other Dommes – Whenever possible try to learn how to be a good Domme from someone who already is. Even if you just talk to other Dommes online about things you can do, this will help you get a broader perspective than books and websites can teach.
When
you’re ready to learn how to be a good Domme, then it’s time to
get serious about the process. Becoming a Domme is more than just
deciding to boss others around. This is a journey of becoming more
powerful and showing others that you can control them.
You
also learn to control yourself and to create powerful experiences for
others.
