Sunday 15 July 2012

Collars & Cuffs For Effective BDSM Training


When you’re in a BDSM relationship, control is everything. The environment can help control a slave, but so can the toys that are in the room. With a bondage collar and a set of bondage cuffs you can put the slave into the right headspace for the training you have to do.

A bondage collar can be something as simple as a dog collar from a pet store or as elaborate as a high end suede leather collar specifically made for slaves. This collar is meant to represent the control the Dominant has over the slave. Once that collar is placed around the slave’s neck, the slave has to submit to all of the instructions they receive from the Dominant.

A collar is often given to a slave that has been through a certain period of training, as sort of graduation present. When they are given this collar, they know they are owned.

Bondage cuffs can help to restrict movement of a slave and can serve as another reminder of the slave’s position in the dungeon. If the slave puts them on as soon as they are in the dungeon, they are showing they are ready to be controlled and to be trained.

You can find a number of different bondage cuffs at sex shops and online stores. These can be found in basic leather or in fun designs with fur. Or you can make bondage cuffs out of bondage tape or rope. Some find that using one set of cuffs is most effective since the slave will begin to associate training with those cuffs.

With the right toys and tools in the dungeon, the slave and the Dominant will have a clear way to see who is in charge and who is submissive. With a bondage collar and bondage cuffs as a part of your training, you can begin to immediately establish the mood and begin effective training sessions.